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Release date: 30th March 2023

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The opening track to boygenius' debut album, 'Without You Without Them' is a brief acapella piece built on the trio's interlocking voices. Lucy Dacus, Julien Baker and Phoebe Bridgers sing in close harmony about lineage and inheritance, the song structured as a conversation between two people acknowledging the ancestors and influences that shaped them. "Who would I be without you, without them?" becomes both question and answer, each voice folding into the next as if tracing a family tree in real time. The lyrics move between gift and gratitude. One voice offers everything; another accepts what can be given. There's an intimacy here that feels earned, the kind of knowledge that comes from years of collaboration. A Dork five-star record, 'the record' announces itself through this moment of pure connection, three songwriters at the height of their powers choosing to speak as one.

"Without You Without Them" is a track by Boygenius, from the album the record, released 30th March 2023. The track is 1:22 long. It's filed under Alternative. Full lyrics are available below. Dork has published 12 articles about Boygenius.

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Without You Without Them

Give me everything you've got
I'll take what I can get
I want to hear your story and be a part of it
Thank your father before you
His mother before him
Who would I be without you, without them?
Speak to me, speak to me, speak to me
Until your history's no mystery to me
Talk to me, talk to me, talk to me
Until the words run dry
We'll see eye to eye
I'll give everything I've got
Please, take what I can give
I want you to hear my story and be a part of it
Thank my father before me
His mother before him
Who would I be without you, without them?

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    Writer
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    Producer
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