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Prioritise Pleasure

Release date: 21st October 2021

From Prioritise PleasureTrack 44:06

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About This Track

"Prioritise Pleasure" is a single by Self Esteem, from the album Prioritise Pleasure, released 21st October 2021. The track is 4:06 long. It's filed under Alternative. Full lyrics are available below. Dork has published 20 articles about Self Esteem.

About the Artist

Self Esteem

Self Esteem

Lyrics

Prioritise Pleasure

Listen to my body
We haven't been in touch much lately
Never have I calmly
Dealt with anything they ever gave me
You should always know
That I cannot let go of

Anything that's wronged me
Anything that made me secondary
So many of them clearly
Liked the idea of me in theory
I shrunk, moved and changed
And still, you felt the same

So I'm breathing in
One, two, three
Prioritise pleasuring me
No need to wait for bended knee
I'm free

So I'm breathing in
One, two, three
Prioritise pleasuring me
No need to wait for bended knee
I'm free, I'm free

I got a feeling
The time is now to start accepting
Everything I messed up
All the fucked up shit I did thinking it would make me happy
Very little of it did, really

And it happened lately
As I willed a sunset to go quickly
Always thinking what next
Never have I just enjoyed the moment happening right now
I've never known how

So I'm breathing in
One, two, three
Prioritise pleasuring me
No need to wait for bended knee
I'm free

So I'm breathing in
One, two, three
Prioritise pleasuring me
No need to wait for bended knee
I'm free, I'm free

Shave my pussy (that's just for me)
Unfollow you (that's just for me)
Keeping busy (that's just for me)
And sleeping in (that's just for me)
Fuck where I've been (that's just for me)
My daydreaming (that's just for me)
Out sexting (that's just for me)
My freedom (that's just for me)

So I'm breathing in
One, two, three
Prioritise pleasuring me
No need to wait for bended knee
I'm free, I'm free

So I'm breathing in
One, two, three (one, two, three)
Prioritise pleasuring me (pleasuring me)
No need to wait for bended knee
I'm free (I'm free), I'm free (I'm free)

I thought that you'd be kind to me
I thought that you'd be kind to me
I thought that you'd be kind to me
I thought that you'd be kind to me

Lyrics provided by LRCLIB

Track details

From Prioritise Pleasure

4:062021Single

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Album

Prioritise Pleasure

22nd October 2021

Track number

4

Release year

2021

1I'm Fine
3:02
2Fucking Wizardry
3:52
3Hobbies 2
3:46
4Prioritise Pleasure
4:06

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Self Esteem — Lies (feat. Nadine Shah) (from A Complicated Woman) [2:55]
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Self Esteem — Fucking Wizardry (from Prioritise Pleasure) [3:52]
Self Esteem — John Elton (from Prioritise Pleasure) [2:50]
Self Esteem — You Forever (from Prioritise Pleasure) [3:45]
Self Esteem — Still Reigning (from Prioritise Pleasure) [3:49]
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Self Esteem — How Can I Help You (from Prioritise Pleasure) [2:22]
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Self Esteem — To See From Here (from Prima Facie (Original Theatre Soundtrack)) [3:42]
Self Esteem — Perfect 2 Me (Reprise) (from Prima Facie (Original Theatre Soundtrack)) [2:15]
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